Day 10: A picture of the person you do the most fucked up things with

Monday, March 21, 2011

Day 10: A picture of the person you do the most fucked up things with


Ok, easy peasy.  Kim Rarden (because she will always been Rarden to me).  Heck, she is still saved in my cell phone as Kim Rarden.  I have to remember sometimes most people know her as Kim Luke now, but she will always be the wild and crazy Kim Rarden to me.  So yes, hands down, my bff Kim.
"stay young and wild as long as you can"
Surprisingly enough Kim and I really didn't become that close until almost AFTER high school.  We met the summer that I was going into 8th grade and getting ready to transfer to the public school.  I will never forget the day she was showing off a pair of black leather pants in the hallway at school and a teacher said, "nice trash bags", and she turned around without any hesitation and said, nice goggles (about his huge glasses).  He was speechless.  His jaw dropped and he just walked into his classroom.  I knew right then and there, we needed to be friends.  She has never held back her feelings and I think that's why we get along so well. 
Then high school came.  We played sports together but Kim seemed to always have a boyfriend she was with.  But that never stopped us, no matter how many times that boyfriend did NOT want us to hang out together.  He knew we were trouble and so did we.  We have done a ton of wild ass things (some that we regret and some we don't) together, but they have made us who we are today and have only made our friendship stronger. 
I don't think it would be fair to pin point some of the crazy stuff we have done, because well, most of it probably isn't legal, but it sure was a good time.
Still till this day if I tell my Dad I am going out with Kim Rarden, the first thing that comes out of his mouth is, "oh God, be good."  lol.  And of course, we always are....... 
Then we met boys, who soon became husbands and before we knew it, we were wives. Soon to be Mommys.  Ready or not we were growing up.  I was there for the birth of her child and she was there for mine.  We have shed many of tears, laughs, and unforgettable moments together.  We may do some crazy things, but that's who we are and what we do.  Our poor husbands and children, I don't think we will ever be able to be controlled.  lol.
We had to have been separated at birth.  Without a doubt. We know what each other are thinking, and we just look at each other with that, oh shit, look and just laugh.  We have 2469803846 inside jokes that are funny every.single.time.
So here's to many more crazy f-ed up thing with you sista.
Best friends because our Moms couldn't handle us as sisters!
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5 comments :

Adrien said...

Seriously, Cassie, you have to tell who the teacher was, because that is hilarious! (I still think of everyone's names from their high school days. I can't keep all these name changes straight!)

Kim said...

ahh! i love it!!!!

OK, And in my defense, I wasn't wearing the leather pants just any ole day. Something was going on that day at school, and Maranda brought me the pants to school!! lol
OH Mr. Ringering! He hated me from that day on! lol

Love Love Love you BFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Cassie said...

Ha! There you go Adrien, Kim spilled the beans.
I do not think I have EVER seen him so speechless in my life. lol.

Love you too bff!

Melissa Cheek said...

I do recall a time that "Kim Rarden" smacked an adult male at the team center, don't mess with her lol!

Kim said...

omg melissa!! hahahah why don't i remember that?? haha i wouldn't put it past me! :)